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December 12, 2007

Commuter Sentences: Love Thy Neighbor

On the way to work this morning (okay, I'm blogging at work, but give me a break, it's lunchtime), I decided to walk to the metro, given that I skipped the gym. So, I walked past my homeless friend near Union Station who said "2 more days to the weekend--think positive!" I love him. I have the feeling many people do, because yesterday he had a pot of hot coffee there with him.

Well, on the metro, I went to sit down and had this guy rushing from the other end of the train to sit where I was sitting (2 seats available). I mean, he REALLY wanted that seat. As I watched him write a list on his daily planner pad, I was formulating ideas about what he was about. I was confidant that if he were a character in a made-for-TV feature-length film, he'd be either a.) a serial killer b.) the bumbling office eccentric who everyone makes fun of for being uptight and anal or c.) spy in the manner of Robert Hanssen (i.e. guy from Breach...the fedora helped in this regard).

He threw me for a loop when he pulled out Washington Hispanic. I didn't peg him as Hispanic. But then I thought maybe he just picked it up near the station for something to read, lest he have a moment with nothing to do.

Well, just shy of our stop, Farragut North, the train stops because--and I quote--"a wheelchair person is laid out on the edge of the track so trains are traveling at a reduced rate of speed." So, he says to me "What do you suppose that means?" Each announcement over the next 10 minutes clarified the situation a bit. It seems someone fell out of their wheelchair. No one really explained to us, however, why no one just helped them up and away from the edge. So, we had a bit of interaction over the whole ordeal--he felt it could be an attempted suicide. I felt it was Metro trying to get more creative with their excuses.

But, in the end, I don't think he's a serial killer or spy, though he may be a bit anal, who isn't. It just goes to show how jumping to conclusions about other people can cause irrational thoughts and behaviors--from road rage to simple snapping of a checkout person at a customer...in the end, we just need to be more sympathetic and have more interaction.

Okay, this kumbaya moment is officially OVER.

November 19, 2007

Dread-ful

I finally watched my Netflix movies from 3 weeks ago this weekend. The first The Inheritance, by Danish director Per Fly was depressing and too much for me on a lazy Saturday (let's put it this way, it features an attempted rape by the main character and suicide and love lost...). The other was In July, a German flick. It was worth watching, but I had a hard time getting past the main actress's hair. She featured one of my biggest pet peeves: white people with dreads/cornrows/braids (and by this I don't mean little white girls with Pippi Longstocking hair...).

44757150_4I don't dislike those hairstyles in general, as in, when they're on the African-American hair for which the Good Lord intended them. I find it embarrassing when white people do it. Kind of like white people who say "Brother." These white people are typically privileged and trying too hard to be "anti-establishment." Give me a break! For African-Americans, it's a statement of pride and frankly, an easy way to wear your hair (which, living with frizzy curly hair myself, I can appreciate). For these freaks, it's saying "look, I'm so awesome and counter-culture. Power to the people! Aren't I cool?" And, after the protest against the World Bank, they all roll home in the BMWs Mom and Dad bought them and play Nintendo. Barf.

August 13, 2007

What is the Fate of Small Businesses in America?

The article below is from the Boston Business Journal. Even though, as a part of my work, I understand the economics of why small businesses often can't continue to operate, it still saddens me. I love small shops, especially "functional" ones in cities like hardware stores and grocery stores, but I know that often, the land is just too valuable for these to continue to operate.

I feel strongly about supporting local businesses because I really do think they help the local economy more. Economic development has traditionally focused on large companies and large businesses. The jurisdiction makes concessions to the large business with the understanding that they will provide economic benefits exceeding the cost in new jobs, economic output, and attractiveness to additional spin-off businesses. However, the economy has changed. These larger companies aren't as secure as they used to be, and arguably, they never were. I think there's a general agreement in the economic development field that there is no such thing as a silver bullet, and progressive places are making attempts at stratifying their economic development strategies.

I think fostering local businesses makes sense because such a small amount can make a proportionally large impact. It's a lot like the micro-credit lenders such as the winner of the 2006 Nobel Peace Prize. Relatively little money can make a large impact and little by little, change the world. And, understand, this was a private sector business, not a government giving loans or grants.

Cities have begun making provisos in development deals that require developers to put local businesses in their large mixed-use projects, but that doesn't really happen as much as the opposite does: national chains are brought in, and the development looks like Anywhere America. I read an article once that was very revealling about the concessions developers need to make to big boxes such as Target. The developers need them for their project because they are such a draw and bring customers for other businesses in the shopping center. But because the retailer is in such high demand and can go anywhere, it can often pay little rent and won't sign the traditional operating covenants that govern many other businesses.

I admit part of my affinity for small businesses is nostalgic and not rational. I remember when I was little, and we went to the corner market for a lot of things and chatted with the family that ran it. But I admit it: I shop at Target. I don't do all my shopping at local businesses. Why? For the same reasons other people do. Buying one roll of toilet paper at the corner market doesn't make good economic sense for me. I probably shop at local businesses more than the Average Joe (as you may have seen if you read my posting about grocery shopping) but even my level of support is probably not enough to justify having them in high-rent areas.

All in all, this diatribe is just to get my thoughts out there and maybe get people thinking a little...it's Monday...and I'm admittedly not all that lucid!

Old downtown hardware store's fate is up in the air

Retail and residential seen as possible uses for antiquated building

Boston Business Journal - August 10, 2007

W. Marc Bernsau
The Hardware Outlet Co. is an odd duck among the sleek office towers on High Street. After the death of owner Francis Ramacorti, his widow and the law firm in charge of the estate are trying to decide what to do with the property.
The Hardware Outlet Co. was more than just a dirty, disorganized sliver of a store where office workers could go to find random knickknacks for home repairs.

The store, which has been closed since the owner, Francis "Frank" Ramacorti died a year ago, was somewhat of a landmark in Boston given it was the home-improvement store in a district populated by the 9 to 5 crowd. Located in Boston's Financial District at 51 High St., the store gained notoriety for its unusual location and purpose.

Ramacorti also became known himself for his refusal to sell the property, which had caught the attention of many commercial developers eyes over the years.

Now his widow, Karen Ramacorti, and Ropes & Gray LLP -- the law firm in charge of the Ramacorti estate -- are trying to decide what to do with the property which is sandwiched between the 99 High St. tower and Massachusetts Bay Transportation Authority offices.

Karen, who resides in Reading, said she is in discussions with one hardware store operator who would like to lease the property but she has not made a decision about whether she will lease or sell the building.

Though the slender building is just shy of 12,000 square feet and is assessed at $916,600, it could be an attractive site for a small retailer, boutique company or even for residential uses, said David Begelfer, chief executive officer of the Massachusetts chapter of the National Association of Industrial and Office Properties. Begelfer guessed that if sold, the property could garner approximately $1 million or possibly more depending on how many stories could be added to the four-story building. The lack of development sites in Boston, no matter how small, could also drive interest and price.

"The location is great, it's a relatively small building," Begelfer said. "You (could) own your own building, and that's rare in Boston."

Karen Ramacorti expects she'll make a decision by this fall and said although there are sentimental reasons to see the property continue as a hardware store, she acknowledged "it's not a very good business decision."

Her husband purchased the property in 1934 as a real estate investment and never intended to run the hardware store until the day he died. But Ramacorti knew a lot about hardware and repairs and grew to know his customers, said Karen. The store was so narrow that there was only one aisle up the center stacked from floor to ceiling with odds and ends.

"I think he had a lot of years invested in it and he liked it," said Karen Ramacorti. "A lot of people come in in the neighborhood ... it was almost like a social club."

Customers would come to poke around in the old, unconventional hardware store to find things they couldn't get elsewhere. Now the family is in the process of removing paints and pesticides from the building, which is stocked to the roof with hardware supplies. There are no family members interested in carrying on the hardware store's legacy, said Karen Ramacorti.

The closing of the Hardware Outlet is representative of more than just another small, family-owned business fading away or an antiquated piece of real estate ripe for redevelopment. It's symptomatic of what is happening to small businesses across the region and country, said Steve Adams, regional advocate for the U.S. Small Business Administration in Boston.

"This business is closing its doors not because they couldn't make it but because the owner died," said Adams. "This is a really interesting microcosm of what's going to happen all over the city and all over the region because small business (owners) have no plan after they retire or after they die."

Adams, who used to visit the "beat-up old hardware store," said he thought it was unlikely the store would continue as a hardware outlet, given the property's value.

Michelle Hillman can be reached at mhillman@bizjournals.com.

July 23, 2007

The Wheels on the Bus Go Round and Round

My bus trip today featured:

  • Getting jostled by tons of people
  • A woman with a huge wheelchair filled with stuff that caused a major ruckus, especially in the crowded bus.
  • A man who offered me his seat, which was nice, but
  • I hit someone in the face with my dry cleaning.
  • A man whistling Camptown Races
  • Smelling the woman's dinner beside me....definitely something featuring french fries.
  • Finally getting off...and realizing there was an empty bus a few seconds behind that one!

July 12, 2007

More Great News on Childhood Obesity

This is from the Associated Press via Yahoo News...one of my main sources of news, whenever I go to check email

Overweight kids face widespread stigma

July 12, 2007 12:54:45 AM PST

Overweight children are stigmatized by their peers as early as age 3 and even face bias from their parents and teachers, giving them a quality of life comparable to people with cancer, a new analysis concludes.

Youngsters who report teasing, rejection, bullying and other types of abuse because of their weight are two to three times more likely to report suicidal thoughts as well as to suffer from other health issues such as high blood pressure and eating disorders, researchers said.

"The stigmatization directed at obese children by their peers, parents, educators and others is pervasive and often unrelenting," researchers with Yale University and the University of Hawaii at Manatoa wrote in the July issue of Psychological Bulletin.

The paper was based on a review of all research on youth weight bias over the past 40 years, said lead author Rebecca M. Puhl of Yale's Rudd Center for Food Policy and Obesity.

It comes amid a growing worldwide epidemic of child obesity. By 2010, almost 50 percent of children in North America and 38 percent of children in the European Union will be overweight, the researchers said.

While programs to prevent childhood obesity are growing, more efforts are needed to protect overweight children from abuse, Puhl said.

"The quality of life for kids who are obese is comparable to the quality of life of kids who have cancer," Puhl said, citing one study. "These kids are facing stigma from everywhere they look in society, whether it's media, school or at home."

Even with a growing percentage of overweight people, the stigma shows no signs of subsiding, according to Puhl. She said television and other media continue to reinforce negative stereotypes.

"This is a form of bias that is very socially acceptable," Puhl said. "It is rarely challenged; it's often ignored."

The stigmatization of overweight children has been documented for decades. When children were asked to rank photos of children as friends in a 1961 study, the overweight child was ranked last.

Children as young as 3 are more likely to consider overweight peers to be mean, stupid, ugly and sloppy.

A growing body of research shows that parents and educators are also biased against heavy children. In a 1999 study of 115 middle and high school teachers, 20 percent said they believed obese people are untidy, less likely to succeed and more emotional.

"Perhaps the most surprising source of weight stigma toward youths is parents," the report says.

Several studies showed that overweight girls got less college financial support from their parents than average weight girls. Other studies showed teasing by parents was common.

"It is possible that parents may take out their frustration, anger and guilt on their overweight child by adopting stigmatizing attitudes and behavior, such as making critical and negative comments toward their child," the authors wrote, suggesting further research is needed.

Lynn McAfee, 58, of Stowe, Pa., said that as an overweight child she faced troubles on all fronts.

"It was constantly impressed upon me that I wasn't going to get anywhere in the world if I was fat," McAfee said. "You hear it so often, it becomes the truth."

Her mother, who also was overweight, offered to buy her a mink coat when she was 8 to try to get her to lose weight even though her family was poor.

"I felt I was letting everybody down," she said.

Other children would try to run her down on bikes to see if she would bounce. She had a hard time getting on teams in the playground.

"Teachers did not stand up for me when I was teased," McAfee said.

A study in 2003 found that obese children had much lower quality of life scores on issues such as health, emotional and social well-being, and school functioning.

"An alarming finding of this research was that obese children had (quality of life) scores comparable with those of children with cancer," the researchers reported.

Sylvia Rimm, author of "Rescuing the Emotional Lives of Overweight Children," said her surveys of more than 5,000 middle school children reached similar conclusions.

"The overweight children felt less intelligent," Rimm said. "They felt less popular. They struggled from early on. They feel they are a different species."

Parents should emphasize a child's strengths, she said, and teachers should pair up students for activities instead of letting children pick their partners.

McAfee, who now works for the Council on Size and Weight Discrimination, said her childhood experiences even made her reluctant to see a doctor when she needed one. She recalled one doctor who said she looked like a gorilla and another who gave her painkillers and diet pills for what turned out to be mononucleosis.

"The amount of cruelty I've seen in people has changed me forever," McAfee said.

The Yale-Hawaii research report recommends more research to determine whether negative stereotypes lead to discriminatory behavior, citing evidence that overweight adults face discrimination. It also calls for studying ways to reduce stigma and negative attitudes toward overweight children.

"Weight-based discrimination is as important a problem as racial discrimination or discrimination against children with physical disabilities," the report concludes. "Remedying it needs to be taken equally seriously..."

July 11, 2007

Trip Home

I helped carry a homeless woman's bags onto the bus this evening. I'm not saying this in hopes of being canonized or being made an Eagle Scout. Quite the contrary, I didn't feel good after doing this. I was annoyed I had to. My hand felt dirty afterwards. I felt I had to do it because that's what you do as a good citizen, and I didn't have an excuse; my white leather purse and canvas bag from the Oakville Grocery in the Napa Valley fit on my shoulder, making my hands free. I sat down to read a chapter in my book called "The Paradox of Individuality" in front of a smelly homeless man. I felt annoyed again.

My bus route goes by the city shelter. And, if I stay at work a bit late or stop somewhere before getting to the bus stop, I'm right on schedule with the time you have to go to the shelter, apparently. I see the woman whose bags I carried often.

The woman I helped started a "conversation" with a woman in the front, probably against the other woman's wishes. She said out loud to whomever would listen, "There's so much hate in the world. So much anger. You'll all get old one day and see what it's like to be an old lady."

My mind immediately went to my retirement savings, of course, and how I really should save more. I also thought "But for the grace of God..." in the words of Oprah (other people say it, but for some reason, I think of that as a classic Oprah phrase). I feel lucky to have been blessed with what I have. I also feel proud of my work. But, there is always that lurking fear: what if I lost everything?

Everything isn't just everything monetary. I see these people who live on the streets and wonder where their families are. Did they finally have enough of the drug use and exercise tough love? Did they see their family member descend into mental illness and were helpless to stop it? Or, are these people truly without anyone? I think everyone has at least had a taste of this. It's why confronting homelessness and the homeless is so difficult for us. It makes us confront our own powerlessness and our own fears of helplessness.

When I take the Metro instead of the D6, I see another homeless man. He hangs around 2nd and Massachusetts Ave. He actually often attends church with me too (I think the doughnuts are a big draw...). What strikes me about him is his good attitude. I'm sure he probably has a mental problem which makes him this way, but seriously, I could do with a little of that. I think he sees it as his job in the morning to tell everyone to have a good day. He doesn't panhandle. He sits with his stuff and says things like "It's Friday! Think positive!" Or "Sunny day today! Have a good day!" For just a minute, I do think a little more positive.

July 10, 2007

Big Challenges

I just got done watching Shaq's Big Challenge. It's just the kind of TV that hooks me...it's a reality show about weight loss, which almost automatically commands "Christine, watch me." It also has some serious information about childhood obesity, which I identify with.

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Tonight, the kids did the Presidential Physical Fitness Award tests. This brought back bad memories of gym class for me. As a kid, I dreaded the PPFA. I dreaded it even more than gym class in general--and believe me, that's a lot. The thing about the tests is that they inevitably confirmed my lack of physical prowess. I could almost see the "cool" kids (who by the way were banging out sit ups like they were going out of style) taking mental notes to remind themselves to pick me last for their kickball teams.

Those tests felt like they lasted forever. I can't remember if the gym teachers spread it out, or if the one session was traumatic enough to make it seem as if it lasted forever. Sit and reach, chin ups, push ups, sit ups, mile run...back then, it was all about being better than the Soviets, wasn't it. "Mr. Gorbachev, Tear Down that Chin Up Bar!"

Part of Shaq's mission on the show is to get mandatory P.E. for schools. Now, I admit that when I found out that most American kids now don't have to do P.E., a small part of my inner child said "NO FAIR!" But, the adult in me said "This is unbelievable and unconscionable." 

And, another part of me is envious of the kids who are getting the chance to get a real introduction to fitness and nutrition. When I think of all the nutso diet advice I got over the years, well, it just makes me crazy. As an adult, I wish I had the chance to get involved in a sport or to get real training.

The closest I got to sports was middle school basketball. My uniform didn't fit properly and neither did the coaching. And, as if an ill-fitting uniform wasn't enough, they were orange. If I can find a picture, I'll share it. Because my school didn't have a gymnasium, we practiced in the gym of a school-turned-office building a ten-minute drive away. We were the jokes of the Catholic school league. When we were playing against Blessed Sacrament Cathedral, we were teased mercilessly. I was teased for my weight; the team was teased for how much it sucked.

In high school, I decided to join Track and Field. God bless Mr. Free, the track coach (and also, incidentally, the Health teacher). He didn't cut anyone. I think the experience I had there was positive--I actually got some real training and my first taste of weight training. I gave it a good run (no pun intended), but in the end quit about 2/3 through the season. I was "placed" in the "field" part of track and field, probably due to my slowness. This meant I did javelin, shot put, and other things that are generally seen being done by Greek and Roman statues, not honor students. It also involved a lot of sitting and standing around, which was, again, largely due to my not being good in it. The good people practiced and got trained, while the rest of us watched. Boring.

This just brings up some things I strongly believe in. I think education really needs to happen in the schools in essential life matters: nutrition, fitness (real fitness, not just dodgeball), and personal finances. I mean, when someone leaves high school, they should know this stuff that can carry them through life. I was able to give chemical formulas and do calculus and label the parts of a fetal pig, but I am STILL figuring out the other stuff, and have more or less forgotten those other things. I'm not saying the other things aren't important...it's just that having real information about these life-improving things would be a real help.